It is supposed to be embarrassing to get with a heavier woman because men are so focused on bodies, or at least they are supposed to be.But its somewhat more acceptable to hook up with heavy woman while drunk, which is why sadly a lot of overweight girls (including myself) have random hook ups that never call, and don't get asked out often.Thursday, December 27, 2007, AM Yes, but its not socially accepted I think many men - maybe not most but a good percentage of them - find heavier women attractive.Men like the large breasts and butts that come with a larger package.Having said that, don't take that to mean that men are shallow pigs.I am naturally more attracted to men of average weight than overweight men. Yes, it might make our breasts and butts bigger, but I would rather let my body exist in the healthy form it is supposed to be in.Of course there are exceptions to this - there are men out there that are totally not ashamed to be attracted to and love a heavier woman.
at 200 lbs, i definitely had dates, and got hit on, and i got a TON of attention at 170 lbs-in fact that's how much i weighed when i met my current boyfriend (almost 3 years ago) and he still thinks i'm hot at 140 lbs!Tuesday, August 29, 2006, PM I think it depends on the guy ! I have atleast 60lbs to loose and I am 50 Can you believe Ive had men hit on me. Beauty is skindeep but ugly is through and through!Tuesday, August 29, 2006, PM I have always been pysically attracted to fat women.Plus, just because you are heavy doesn't mean you are suddenly not beautiful.
I know plenty of absolutely gorgeous women that are also overweight, and most men still notice that beauty regardless of their heaviness.
While I think I look more attractive now than I did before, I don't think it is so much so that I should get advances from so much more men.