The parents may try to influence the child's choice, or generally pressure their child to choose someone while they are still of "marriageable age." Love-cum-arranged marriage: This is matrimony between a mutually acceptable and consenting couple that has been facilitated by the couple’s parents.
Mail-order husbands also exist through "reverse publications." Rather than waiting to be contacted, women can contact men directly from advertisements in publications.
Modern arranged marriage: The parents choose several possible mates for the child, sometimes with the help of the child (who may indicate which photos he or she likes, for example).