I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.I have lived my entire life, barring the past 5 years of course, in Southern California.I go to the supermarket and I see beautiful women, I go get my hair cut and there’s a breathtaking woman, I go eat lunch and I see an amazingly attractive woman.Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there.I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.
When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.
Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous.
I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still floored at some of the women in my gym!
Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.
So I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.