from males who think my response would be immediate heart-pouring in an exotic language (This unrealistic fantasy is realized in the 2012 Fiat Superbowl Commercial).I just expected Asian guys to know better than that, but that stereotype was proven wrong on my part.A lot of you reading this right now might assume that I heard such ignorance only from white American guys. Some “people of my kind” who are males don’t necessarily come up with anything less stupid. I only look like this other Asian female because that’s my cousin who’s related to me, by blood.And we happened to have similar haircuts due to shared good taste, which might be hereditary.I also live in San Francisco, where it seems like I can never not see at least one interracial couple with the female being East Asian walking down Valencia Street.
男欢女爱 (nánhuān nǚài) For couples, at its best, sex can offer some serious fun.But it's subtle, and of course, few would admit to surfing online dating sites for Chinese women, yet when the only girls they date are Chinese, then the probabilities are in their favour.Having said that, I'm surprised at what British men, both young and old, generally get away with when talking about East Asian women (Chinese, Japanese, Korean etc.) as well as South East Asian women (Vietnam, Thailand etc.) I've heard my Caucasian friends recommend to their male, single mates that they should date “nice Chinese girls”, with the added bonus that Chinese women are far more sexually open-minded than Caucasian girls.But if you drop it in a sentence, I guarantee you that people won’t be thinking of tourism on the Yangtze.
😉 Jocelyn is a writer, blogger and the creator of Speaking of China, a blog about love, family and relationships in China, including AMWF love. You can find her writing in The Wall Street Journal, The Huffington Post, the anthologies "How Does One Dress to Buy Dragonfruit? Jocelyn is fluent in Chinese and working on a memoir.
😉 After they truly enjoyed themselves, the Wushan woman told him, if you ever want to find her, just remember Wushan — clouds in the morning, rain in the evening.