“Hey gurl, luv ur pics” is not going to get a response.
More likely to get a response: A message that is directly responsive to several things in the object of your affection’s profile.
Dev’s (Aziz Ansari) classic line “Going to Whole Foods, want me to pick you up anything?
” began making the rounds on real-life dating sites.
Move on to someone who’s interested in people of your gender, location, age, etc.
No one wants to date sad-sack, and no one wants to hear about your terrible past dating life the first time they talk to you.