It will be received as a sign that either you’re a respectful gentleman or you’re a wuss.Keep in mind that we’re talking about a simple display of affection.You went to dinner, and now you’re taking a stroll through a beautiful green park on a warm spring night. Your date leans over without a word to give you a kiss, and you… I know some people, and yes it’s mostly women, just have a life policy of NO FIRST DATE KISSES. It seems a little odd to me, and so I’m interested in hearing from you. Are you worried that a kiss will lead to a premature act of intimacy? (Like perhaps that you enjoy kissing) What is it about a romantic smooch that makes you adopt such a hard line?Before you know it, you’re arm in arm and laughing together. I would REALLY love to hear from a man who has such a policy.
Does she suggest the idea of coffee or a cocktail to extend the evening or is she looking for an opportunity to ditch you?
Hug It Out One way to learn about how a woman feels about you is to assess the hug response.
When saying hello or goodbye, keep the embrace short and look for nonverbal feedback. If so, you might even be able to get the short first kiss in right then.
The casual sweeping of her shoulders as you help her with her coat, or her response when you brush against her hand in the popcorn bag or touch the small of her back as you guide her to the table provides plenty of clues.
If she pulls away at all, then slow down a bit and take some more time.
And if you happen to be on a date with someone who says such a thing how does that affect your attraction?