When Donald Trump was elected, he may not have realized all the tough choices he would have to make as president. Often described as the "Little Paris of Middle Europe," Budapest is famous for its own 1,000-year-old culture and also the culture of others who settled here.Remains from both Roman and Turkish occupations can still be seen in the city.It’s only through communication that the two of you can actually work things out.If you don’t, then all you do is push things down and hope they go away… All it does is fester and rot under the surface and end up infecting an otherwise incredible relationship. You say “Hey, listen, I’m sorry I reacted badly the other day when we were talking about our past sexual experiences.
It’s a lot harder, but even more necessary, when it comes to dealing with your darker side, the part of you that you’re not proud of, that you wish you could excise away but you can’t.
Emphasize that you don’t think she’s bad or wrong of slutty or dirty or what-have-you and – importantly – that you respect her and care for her and want to dating.
Let her know that you may need a little time to wrap your head around it – you’re trying to overcome a lifetime of cultural programming, after all – and you may say or do stupid things as you do so, but you’re trying to overcome it. Just own your shit and apologize for how you reacted and how it made her feel.
Yeah, it sucks that you suddenly find yourself having a hard time handling your girlfriend’s experiences, but you recognize that it’s fucked up and you’re trying to get past that. That’s a lot more than a lot of other, less cool people might have done in your situation.
You’re not going to be doing anyone any favors if you sit around tearing out your hair and rending your clothing and gnashing your teeth over it and begging forgiveness for being so awful.
It wasn’t something you were aware of and you’re more than a little embarrassed that you responded the way you did.