Dating confessions and tips accommodating people hidden disabilities

I impose the most rules, restrictions, and justifications in my life.As the chief lawmaker of my own village, I abide by a somewhat irrational code of conduct.I’ve been on the receiving end of some rather shocking insults I never would have dreamt a person could say.One I’ll never forget: “Your shape is not desirable to me.” At least he tried to make it sound like a business transaction.


Seemingly perfect-looking people flock here from all corners of the earth, whether for the lure of Hollywood glamour or the glorious weather and sprawling beaches.Nobody likes to be insulted, and when it’s super-cruel in this way, it’s utterly heartbreaking. Worse, some men are fetishists and like you in such a way that it’s actually creepy to be around them.Those are the guys who “really love a cuddler” and couldn’t care less about getting to know you.Being a single, overweight woman in Los Angeles, I learned early on that my dating life will never be normal.

Not just because men (and women) treat you differently or because single women can be competitive, but because I am my own worst enemy.Another I will never forget, but not because it was so tactful: “I would have sex with you, but I’d never be able to introduce you to my friends or family.” I’m not an alien!


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